{"id":1097,"date":"2023-01-16T11:06:39","date_gmt":"2023-01-16T16:06:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/joannarenner.com\/?p=1097"},"modified":"2023-01-16T11:08:07","modified_gmt":"2023-01-16T16:08:07","slug":"self-sabotage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/joannarenner.com\/self-sabotage\/","title":{"rendered":"Self Sabotage: How It Affects You & How To Stop It"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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Have you ever achieved your goals then acted excited and happy yet still a little shocked?<\/span><\/p>

So you worked really hard, stayed focused, got exactly what you wanted but you suddenly self sabotage by becoming disorganized or taking on negative behaviors.<\/span><\/p>

This is like an Eagle gliding, it is suddenly stopping mid-air to say, \u201cWow, I can\u2019t believe I am flying and I even make it look easy too!\u201d<\/span><\/p>

Suddenly it lets go of the extended wing posture, bends its wings to look at itself in disbelief and plummets down to a crash landing.<\/span><\/p>

Sound fun? While it isn\u2019t common with Eagles, it is very common with many people.<\/span><\/p>

Self sabotage in your own success and relationships can become a pattern.<\/span><\/p>

You have everything you wanted then the vibrational energy of your true subconscious beliefs kick in to start attracting the negative things that it matches.<\/span><\/p>

If you start saying negative self talk to be humble (which we were taught by the way to do this) these words create a vibration and attract what matches in your future circumstances.<\/span><\/p>

The self talk that actually matches our success we were taught is conceited so we make sure we don\u2019t say them to ourselves. This needs to be corrected asap.<\/span><\/p>

Here\u2019s how to stop the old ways of life and that damaging pattern before it happens again this year \"\ud83d\udca5\"<\/span><\/p>

If we take a little trip back into our childhood, think and try to recall a time when you were doing something GREAT.<\/span><\/p>

Maybe a sibling was jealous and started treating you badly because you being great made them feel less than. Allow your mind to wander.<\/span><\/p>

Maybe, a best friend decided to stop being your friend as a result. Maybe a parent thought what you did great could have been done even better and told you that you weren\u2019t good enough?<\/span><\/p>

Maybe you witnessed one of your family members achieve something wonderful but then there was a tragic event and loss that occurred around that same time so now you have panic surrounding achievements.<\/span><\/p>

Your self talk and your beliefs can always be led to the ones imprinted into your memory that tell you things like;<\/span><\/p>

I don\u2019t deserve it.<\/span><\/p>

I\u2019m not special or good enough.<\/span><\/p>

I won\u2019t be liked if so am too great.<\/span><\/p>

Or there\u2019s too much competition.<\/span><\/p>

Maybe a belief such as, \u201cSomething really bad will happen if I am successful?\u201d<\/span><\/p>

These super stealthy beliefs act like a light beacon on the beach calling in a repeat pattern to show up because that beacon has become our silent point of attraction hiding right alongside the success point of attraction we consciously put there and desired.<\/span><\/p>

These two very different points of attraction create inner discomfort and conflict with one another distorting the vibrational feeling you are sending out.<\/span><\/p>

When something of an ordinary set back shows up, bam \"\ud83d\udca5\", that pesky beacon lights up even brighter causing a silent energy field of, \u201cSee I told you that you don\u2019t deserve success!\u201d<\/span><\/p>

This internal discomfort happens when words and actions stop aligning and we begin to steer off our path of successful behaviors as a result to make what the belief says become true. Self sabotage!<\/span><\/p>

You know what happens next right?<\/span><\/p>

We fall like the eagle who doesn\u2019t believe it really deserves to be flying.<\/span><\/p>

For 2023, I am suggesting you draw a big red circle around these childhood events, and that you lovingly let them go.<\/span><\/p>

You can only do this from an expanded state of being. Where you are fully connected to the inner corridor of your higher self.<\/span><\/p>

The space between your self doubt and your self guidance. Delete those old stories across all time and space.<\/span><\/p>

Your new awareness will act like an Eagle soaring without any doubts beaming total confidence it will reach its destination as intended.<\/span><\/p>

Fondly,<\/span><\/p>

Joanna Renner
Life Coach
The NJ Feng Shui Realtor<\/span><\/p>

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